You have to adopt a whole new mindset and completely redefine how you view yourself now that you’ve put dating behind you. So, when you make certain decisions, you have to acknowledge that you can’t make them alone anymore.Here are 4 ways that you have to start “thinking monogamous” after you finally find that special someone: You don’t have to abandon your individual identity when you embrace monogamy, but you do have to realize that you’re essentially forming a partnership with the other person. If you want to go to Europe for a month, you need to discuss it.
"At some point you need to let him know you're interested by reaching out.
I know some of you may be thinking, what husband-like expectations do some women actually place on their boyfriends? That includes paying bills that you created, buying groceries, placing the responsibility of taking care of your child/children on him when he’s not the father…just to name a few.
While there is nothing wrong with a man doing these things for his significant other (girlfriend), especially if he volunteers to do it out of the kindness of his heart, we should know not to expect these and other husband privileges from a man who has not put a ring on it.
” “I’ve sent out ten emails and eight men were so rude that they didn’t reply at all; I’ve also got ten emails from interested men, but only two of them are really worth a reply.” “Men are only looking for hot, young women…but I’ve only got the 20 most attractive men on my favorites list.” And, of course, your dilemma.
Now, you may be the exception to the rule – for all I know, you communicate with only one man at a time and wouldn’t even consider writing an email to a new man if you were already in correspondence with another. If you’ve ever struggled with the online dating process – and wondered why men do what they do online – I’ve answered all of your questions and more.